Teachable Moments

I just forced my husband to get up and into the shower. He is sick....well he has a cold which in his mind means he's practically dying. He spent all of yesterday on the couch. His father is in the hospital and has been for a few days. The thing that really annoys me is that he will muster tomorrow for work but can't seem to manage for his family. I don't think he understands that he is teaching his children how to treat him when he's older. I worry that he's teaching our boys how to be lazy because he pretty much is on weekends. I feel like he gives all his energy to work and it leaves nothing for us. He also leaves nothing for himself which is why he is out of shape. It's time to re prioritize. Maybe I'll play him Cat in the Cradle.